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A Time for Renewal, A Time to Pay Attention

daffodilsWHAT’S MISSING?

There are times in our lives when we feel the need, deep down inside of us, to take a fresh look at what we are doing. It may be nagging at us for a while – or maybe it comes over us suddenly as a wake-up call. No matter how it happens, we must pay attention to what the message is. To what is inside trying to get out.

Over the past year, the question of “What’s Missing?” has been coming up a lot for me.  I am always wanting to do better or different to keep things interesting, to keep up with what my clients need, to feel good about what I am doing.  One of the biggest areas that we suffer over is work.  Are we fulfilled?  Are we bored? Do we long for something new?  Having lunch today with one of my friends, I could tell that the energy and sparkle wasn’t there anymore.  When I asked her what was going on, she said that she was just bored.  She had only been in her job two years but it was the same routine everyday – she was on autopilot.

These are the signals that our best self is sending to us – that we must take a beginning step to do something different and new.

This Spring, the season of renewal, is the perfect time to pay attention to our feelings and emotions.  What is the message?  What are feelings trying to tell us?  It may just be a time for you to take a step back and listen to your heart.

In doing so you will find patterns, and then start to envision how you will feel when you are on purpose and doing what you are here to do. The time is now to ask – what will make me feel happy and fulfilled?  Listen to the answers. This way you can start to plan your own season of renewal.

As part of my own renewal, I am thrilled to announce the new International Center for Women’s Leadership. We are here for women executives and business owners who want more in their careers, businesses, and life.

It’s time to just stop getting by each day and to start designing your future.  We can help you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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It’s Been A While…

Originally posted 11/17/2015

Marybeth-&-HarryMy life was turned upside down…

since I last posted a blog.  I was totally focused on my husband who was fighting a very tough illness* and sadly passed away in February of this year.  I made the decision to be with him and give him my all.  And although it was hard at times – missing out on ‘things’, events, work –  I am so happy that I decided to put him first and not the other ‘stuff’.  He was truly the love of my life and our 30+ years together gave me a joy that is hard to describe. He was so full of life and loved it all.

What I learned…
I know I am truly blessed to have so many years of unconditional love together.  Something many people do not have.   There is such a deep void now and I am starting to fill it back up – a moment at a time.  Sure I am angry, and grieving, and my heart stops when I hear a favorite song, or see a special restaurant we loved, or see couples walking together hand in hand. My tears still flow. And I am lonely.

There are powerful lessons, though, that I have been learning:
I learned that I am really made of the tough stuff and that we all have unlimited reserves within us which are there when we need them.

This journey has taught me to be grateful, to slow down, to put things in perspective and ‘not sweat the small stuff’. To trust in God that this is what I am meant to be going through. My daughter is now my rock.  To reach out for support – so many angels are around us if we let them in. And to be grateful for each moment.

Thank you from my heart to all of you who have, and continue to support and love me and to bring a smile back to my life.  I love you all!

* Please be an organ donor now! There are more than  116,000 people in the US right now waiting for a transplant.  20 people die every day.
You can help. https://www.organdonor.gov/index.html

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“Celebrate What You Want More Of”

Originally posted 8/4/2015

toes-in-the-waterI was organizing my desk and an old envelope fell out of some papers I had put aside.  On it, I found this quote – written hastily,  most likely at an airport waiting for a plane to places unknown.  It was of particular interest to me today – a beautiful summer day filled with sun and beach – and I am trying to decide how I will approach the day. I know I need to focus on my work but my restless-self want to run out to the ocean. Or look for the incredible butteries on the flowers outside and clouds floating in the bright blue sky.

I found my answer in these words written on that paper scrap:
“Celebrate what you want to do more of.” 

Tom Peters.  So I decided to spend the day celebrating that I am able to write today and to get the word out about my business of helping women transition back into the workplace and that I am happy about the wonderful women whom I have connected with over this past year.  Maybe I will even be content to stay in my office!  I found that focusing on the important things helps to center me and stay focused on what I need to do. I want to do more of these things – it makes me feel good, that I have accomplished something and that it brings joy to others as well.  I want more of that!

If you find yourself restless, distracted, longing to do something (or anything other than what you are doing),  and you really want to celebrate more of what you want, I have found that this helps:

1.  Have a very focused list of what you must get done right now and today.  Set time limits, get it done and check it off.  That is a really good feeling to cross it off the list.

2.  Have a ‘TO BE” list. How do you want to feel right now? For the rest of the day?  Then choose and decide that is how you want to live your life today. Celebrate how you want to be today.  This is even more important than your To Do list.

3.  Celebrate what you are doing – choose those things and people that make you happy. Do a great job on that report you need to finish. write that blog. Help someone out who is struggling. Turn on some music that makes you feel good, dance a little (or a lot), have some food that tastes so delicious  (sweet summer cherries or cold ice cream),  stick your toes in the water.  Give someone a hug.  Be grateful. Whatever it is that you want more of!

What do You want more of? How are you celebrating today?

Re-Examine        Re-Launch         Re-Enter

Are you a woman in transition who finds herself wanting, or needing, to return to the workplace after taking a break?   You may be in a life-transition – divorce, suddenly single, empty-nester, retiring, or even have lost your job.  You need support – now. 

Finding a job in 2015 is not the same as it used to be five or ten years ago.  Everything is changing and you need to have the latest information, strategies and action plan at your fingertips so you can re-launch yourself and re-enter the workplace.  I can help you do that!

Come join me for a complimentary personal ‘exploration session’ where we can review options and ideas to help you in your transition.   

Please go to: http://www.icwop.com/introduction.html   Everyone needs a little help sometimes. It is your turn now. Connect with me at : marybeth@icwop.com

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Laughing With Yourself

Originally posted 4/17/2015

a-day-without-laughterI’ve been parallel parking all of my driving-life but this morning I was meeting a coaching client and had to find a spot on a busy street. There were two places and both looked plenty big enough to fit in.  I tried the first one – I lined up and then hit the curb. I tried it again –after four attempts I gave up and moved up the block to the other larger spot. Piece of cake!  I lined up again, swung in, hit the curb again and again, and again. Did the curb get bigger? Was there something in the road?   I am thinking I am normally good at this but not today.  I noticed that there was an older man on a bicycle waiting for me to pull in, sitting on his bike somewhat amused.  I just looked at him and started laughing at myself. Then he started laughing – with a big, wide toothy grin and smiling eyes – the kind of moment when you just stop and share the how funny life can be.

I must have put on some show because my husband happened to be driving down the street in the opposite direction, was stopped at a red light, and saw what was happening.  He later told me that traffic was backed up behind me, people were laughing and he started laughing too. You never know how our little moments and challenges can make someone else happy, even if just for a minute.

What could have been an exercise in frustration or embarrassment, instead turned into such a  happy and perfect moment?

So I asked myself why I so easily slipped into joy, instead of impatience or frustration?
Lately, I have been making more of a conscious effort to do these three things:

1. Take in things as they come – be accepting, not angry or impatient

2. Be aware of what IS going on and find the goodness in it

3. Stop being so hard on myself (and others).

I think this was a moment when conscious awareness turned into unconscious response. I know that if we practice being more joyful, and less uptight and intense, good feelings just start to happen naturally.  Our bond with each other in is our words and behaviors. They are totally contagious so let’s make them be the very best one we have. Laugh each day – a very good way to “pass it forward”.

Is it time for a new career or job? Do you feel that you are bored or exhausted at the end of the day and need something different? You may be in a life-transition – divorce, empty-nester, retiring, or even lost your job. Is it time to start a new chapter?  If not now, what are you waiting for?

Now is the best time to write and live the story of the life YOU want. Let me help you on your journey to figure out what inspires you, what your unique skills and talents are, what is next.  I can support you in finding answers and inspiration in personal career coaching, programs and workshops developed just for you.

Come join me for a complimentary personal ‘retreat’ where we can explore options and ideas to help you on this journey.  Please go to: http://www.icwop.com/introduction.html   Everyone needs a little help sometimes. It is your turn now.

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