The theme of balance is coming up and I’m enjoying the playfulness that springs from this. There are two days of the year when day and night are equal and balanced. On March 20 at 5:24 pm EDT, we get to celebrate the return of more sunlight and increasingly warmer days in the Northern Hemisphere, after a long cold, snowy and rainy winter for many people.  The photo above is the cherry blossom tree in my yard, and I look forward to it blooming every year. It really makes me, and anyone walking by, really smile.

One of the things I love about any kind of holiday or calendar event is the silly things that we can do like balancing an egg on its’ end (word is you can do this 365 days out of the year), and even balancing a broom (just heard of that one – but a new broom apparently works better than an old one!). People get together and eat scrambled eggs in Bosnia, and in England, they throw wheels of Gloucester cheese down a hill and then people throw themselves after it.

The spring equinox is a perfect time to reflect on the balance of life and have some fun. Here are two tips to bring balance into your everyday.

It’s about feeling centered and light- you know inside when you are. Notice when you feel peaceful and what types of things you are doing to bring in these good feelings. Do more of them! On a phone call the other day a dear friend told me to give my ‘playful self’ permission to come out and play more. You don’t need to throw cheese but find something fun and lighten up.

Take time to notice perhaps the ‘dark’ side of your feelings as well. What makes you gloomy or crabby or short-tempered or jealous? Make a conscious decision to do less/none of those and refer to point # 1 and play more.

As we transition from the darkness of winter to the light and brightness of spring, we are reminded that it’s good to seek balance in our lives. We may not need to balance an egg on its end everyday – but we can balance ourselves just by noticing and making better conscious decisions.

And who can’t use a little extra sunshine and lightness in your step today?

 

Celebrate International Women’s Day March 8^th – Not Only for What We Do, but for Who We Are

This year, International Women’s Day is on March 8th. This day celebrates women all around the world not only for our achievements in the areas of science, the visual and performing arts, the economy, space travel, the culinary arts, fashion, technology, medicine, manufacturing, business, medicine, teaching, farming, government, taking care of families, being mothers, and in society as a whole. But also, we celebrate women for our strength and our true essence.  It doesn’t matter if we are famous or powerful or a super achiever.  What matters is that we live each day with love for ourselves and others so that we can be the very best we can be.

Make a point to recognize every woman that we meet, regardless of who they are or what they do. Let’s start now by honoring women not only for the things they do for others, but also for who they are as a being.

The theme this year is to Embrace Equity – where we get to stand up against inequity, for inclusion, so that when we do live our lives accepting others, with love, that is when we get to live our lives to the fullest.  And that is when both we, and others, can thrive.

The only thing better than one smart, funny, thoughtful, and powerful woman is more than one together.  Remember no one needs to be alone – there is so much support a, kindness and love around – all we need to do is ask.

Here’s to the women who are changing the world, not just for themselves but for anyone and everyone who wants to live a better life. Happy International Women’s Day! We all contribute to making the world a better place by reaching out and being open – one conversation at a time, one hug at a time, one smile at a time.  This is a perfect time to reflect on how much further we can go in achieving equality and opportunity and for giving more joy for all women around the world.

This year Embrace Equity – where we get to stand up against inequity, for inclusion.

“Several years ago, about 6 months after my husband had died, a dear friend dropped off a box of my favorite comfort foods – a whole box of Tasty Cakes Butterscotch Krimpets!  It was totally unexpected and brought such a deep feeling of joy and a smile to my face that wouldn’t end. It was just one example of all of the kindness that came to me – homemade soups and meatloafs (notice the food theme?), a walk on the beach, and a hundred other ‘gifts’ of love. Reaching out to others is one of the most powerful and loving things we can do for another person.

We all know that Valentine’s Day is a time of love and romance, but not everyone has someone to share it with. Chances are that many people will be home alone thinking about how much they miss their partner or family members. It doesn’t take a lot to reach out and send love to those who are by themselves.

I encourage you to think of others, to spread your caring and love, and give a nice surprise to those who are alone or dealing with sadness. It only takes a few minutes to write a card or email, or better yet, to call them up and say how you are thinking of them, or take them out to lunch or for a walk – this is true friendship, kindness, and the gift of caring.

Valentine’s Day is all about love, whether you are giving it or receiving it. Be the one who reaches out to others and shares some love – not just on Valentine’s Day but perhaps make this a loving practice throughout the year.
Sending love to all of you!”

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Are you stuck in a rut? Do you feel like you’re going through the motions every day, and that there’s no room for spontaneity?

We’ve got good news for you: You can create whatever change you need!

Just by going out of bounds, or doing something that takes you out of your comfort zone, you can get the creative juices flowing again.

It’s easy to get stuck in a routine. You wake up, work, you do your thing, and then you finish or come home and do the same thing over again. But what if there were another way? There are different ways of getting out of your rut—you can try new things like taking a walk in the early morning when everyone else is sleeping in their cozy beds, or putting on your favorite song and dancing by yourself, or with a partner or favorite furry friend. Instead of getting coffee everyday, make a favorite beverage and go to the park and enjoy it. You get the picture.

Or maybe it’s something more creative: maybe it’s writing poetry instead of listening to music while working out (or vice versa), taking up an instrument that’s been collecting dust in your closet since high school (or even starting one – I have on my stretch list for the year to learn the Steel Pan!), or even just making sure that every day has something fun planned for it instead of just being on social media all day long!

Sometimes it takes just a little bit of courage and energy to break out of the mold and try something new—something that might push your boundaries just enough to make you feel happy.

Be open-minded and willing to explore new places and experiences! You’ll be amazed at how well those small steps will make you feel when you start appreciating what makes your life special and unique (even if it’s not perfect).

The truth is that this isn’t just about being happy—it’s about being open to the world around you and getting out of your comfort zone just enough to let yourself feel exhilarated. That’s what gives you joy. And when we use our minds to focus on how much fun we can have when we push ourselves just a little bit outside our usual routines, it becomes easier for us to see all the opportunities for joy that are waiting for us just outside our doorsteps.

In my next blog I’ll share some simple steps on how to find a different perspective and get out of the rut.

 

In the meantime, take a new step and I’d love for you to share your ‘Out of Bounds’ stories!