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February 1, 2023 By Marybeth Leave a Comment

Go Out of Bounds

Out Of Bounds

 

Are you stuck in a rut? Do you feel like you’re going through the motions every day, and that there’s no room for spontaneity?

We’ve got good news for you: You can create whatever change you need!

Just by going out of bounds, or doing something that takes you out of your comfort zone, you can get the creative juices flowing again.

It’s easy to get stuck in a routine. You wake up, work, you do your thing, and then you finish or come home and do the same thing over again. But what if there were another way? There are different ways of getting out of your rut—you can try new things like taking a walk in the early morning when everyone else is sleeping in their cozy beds, or putting on your favorite song and dancing by yourself, or with a partner or favorite furry friend. Instead of getting coffee everyday, make a favorite beverage and go to the park and enjoy it. You get the picture.

Or maybe it’s something more creative: maybe it’s writing poetry instead of listening to music while working out (or vice versa), taking up an instrument that’s been collecting dust in your closet since high school (or even starting one – I have on my stretch list for the year to learn the Steel Pan!), or even just making sure that every day has something fun planned for it instead of just being on social media all day long!

Sometimes it takes just a little bit of courage and energy to break out of the mold and try something new—something that might push your boundaries just enough to make you feel happy.

Be open-minded and willing to explore new places and experiences! You’ll be amazed at how well those small steps will make you feel when you start appreciating what makes your life special and unique (even if it’s not perfect).

The truth is that this isn’t just about being happy—it’s about being open to the world around you and getting out of your comfort zone just enough to let yourself feel exhilarated. That’s what gives you joy. And when we use our minds to focus on how much fun we can have when we push ourselves just a little bit outside our usual routines, it becomes easier for us to see all the opportunities for joy that are waiting for us just outside our doorsteps.

In my next blog I’ll share some simple steps on how to find a different perspective and get out of the rut.

 

In the meantime, take a new step and I’d love for you to share your ‘Out of Bounds’ stories!

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January 25, 2023 By Marybeth Leave a Comment

How Are You Waking Up?

Tropical Sunrise

 

You have heard, I am sure, that how we wake up sets the tone for the day. That goes for both how well we sleep, and also for what feeling or attitude we have when we open our pretty little eyes.

We may be tired, or crabby or dread what we have to do in the day ahead. Our forehead is wrinkled, our mouth downturned, grumbling – who wants to get out of bed feeling like that? And who wants to be with a person like that? No, thanks.

But we get to make a better choice: to be intentional about how we decide to feel for the rest of our day. Ask “Is this how I really want to spend this day – miserable, unhappy, feeling like a slug?” If you are dreading what you need to do, here is another option. Rather than think about what we have to do, reframe that to what we get to do. That puts us right into gratitude – for our breaths, our vision, our heartbeat, or brain waves – all those things we totally take for granted but that give us life. With being grateful we can tell ourselves “I decide to have fun today no matter what, to be kind today no matter if someone is unkind to me, to send love to someone we may not like but who really needs a hug. “Be aware of how you feel when you make that switch – you automatically smile, breathe lighter, look cuter! People then want to be with you rather than with a dreadful grump.

And here is a little tip – when you wake up first thing, before you comb your hair or brush your teeth, with your tussled mop, mushy face and bleary eyes, and look full force into the mirror and say out loud: “You are lookin’ good!” You cannot help but to laugh!

Your Action: choose your best word for your intention for the day, make a little sticky note and put it where you will see it often. Live this day with intention – you get to choose.

(Mine is Lighten Up and it makes me smile. Would love to hear yours!)

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January 6, 2023 By Marybeth Leave a Comment

Do Something Opposite

Do Something Opposite

Happy, happy 2023! You have heard a lot, and know, that we all have a new chance to be our best selves and create the best of what we want, and need. Part of that is being open to doing, and feeling, something different or opposite of what we usually, do or what most of the world is doing.

Yesterday I was again grateful for my coaching clients and how much I receive from coaching them. This particular person is truly delightful to work with (as I can honestly say all of my coaching clients are). She is so interested in being her best and learning and doing new things.

On our call I received a big lesson from her. She talked about how much she loves the month of January! She began to explain that January, besides being a new start, gives her a feeling of light- it looks like all white and new to her in her mind. And this feeling energizes her. She also happens to live in one of the northern countries in the world where they don’t get much sunlight this time of year. We explored this Lightness a bit because it is totally opposite of what a lot of people feel about January (a dreary dark month, feeling low coming off the holidays, etc.). She has chosen to be in the place she which knows will give her the best start for her new year.

This is a great example of how we create our own reality – what pictures or movies we play in our heads.  That was a new take on January for me and a great example of a Reframe – which is seeing or feeling something in a brand new way.  You take what you usually see or feel or tell yourself and change it to something different and better. It just takes a small change.

Test this out. Right now just choose one thing you want to reframe for yourself – something that would be opposite of how you normally feel about that thing – something you want to feel better about.  For example -if you usually don’t’ like to meet new people, it feels very heavy when you think about it and you just want to crawl into a corner, reframe that into a feeling of curiosity and make yourself lighter. So instead of running away from it, you lighten it up and anticipate that you are going to meet just one very nice new person! Aha – you now have a brand-new way of behaving and feeling! At least you try something different. And you never know what great results you may get.

Sometimes opposites are just what you need – and you get to choose. Have fun with this and let me know how this works for you.

 

 

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December 25, 2022 By Marybeth Leave a Comment

12 Holiday Tips For Creating More Joy For Your Holiday Season Tips 9 – 12

 

Tips 9-12

Tips 9 – 12

Create Options

Rather than be on autopilot all the time, step back and ask yourself- how else can I do this? What else can I do? Can I allow myself to not do this?

Respond, not React

There is a big difference between these two words. React is about being on autopilot (see #9). Respond is to be in thoughtful control of our feelings and actions.

Why Not?

Give yourself permission to live a little lighter, happier, crazier. It’s a time for cheer – just ask why not?

Just Be

Ahhh – the feeling of just being. Being You. Being happy. Being quiet. Being loving. Or just Be.

 

Wishing you joy throughout the season.

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